Alright, some readers, particularly
those who have experienced the horrific removal of their children for
brief or lengthy periods of time, have not been pleased with my
occasional portrayal of the well intentioned service side of social
work and child welfare. I have been fair and balanced. There is good
that is accomplished. Enough!
Enough! Social workers, some of your
colleagues and supervisors are out of control. Their ethical
compasses are broken. They have abandoned their heart for the work
and relied upon the letter of the law. They treat people as files
upon which the drawer can be closed at will, rather than human beings
with faces and entire lives. They ignore the comprehensive impact
their actions are having and will have upon people's futures.
Happiness, hopes and dreams get shattered irreparably by the
decisions of parties outside the family circle. Best interests are
confused.
What is being done to Zabeth and Paul
Bayne is disgustingly abhorrent. It's offensive, detestable. I don't
care whether the argument is, “Well, it's our job,” or “We are
mandated to insure the safety of the child.” How much
insensitivity, inhumanity, can be demonstrated by one chapter of MCFD
against one family?
For over three years with some very
notable abusive events this couple against whom there has never been
any evidence, but solely on the basis of suspicion and reprisal, have
endured a degree of scrutiny and humiliation and intimidation that
cries out like a human rights violation story. Now, while a court
case initiated by the MCFD to remove their three children forever is
still pending a judicial ruling, a mother and her unborn fourth child
are being subjected to indecent threats and stress. Indecent I say, because presented as
genuine interest in the welfare of a child that has not yet been
born, proffering hypothetical, unspecified and unnecessary services
to the parents for the new child when it arrives, there are cloaked threatening terms that become menacingly dangerous to a women
whose pregnancies are historically fragile. That's what is taking
place. “If you don't meet with us to talk about our involvement
with you and your new child, then....”
Prematurity has characterized the other
three births. MCFD knows this. The Director knows this. Mom has been
ordered to remove and reduce stress from her life. She is only weeks
away from her due date, and can you imagine what it must be like to
put your head on the pillow each night with a frightful vision of
social workers removing the baby from you at the hospital?
That's what's going on here! Somebody, make it stop! God, make this stop!