I once made a public
entreaty to social workers engaged in child protection. Here is what I said.
“When you reflect upon the cases
in which you are now or have been involved, and if within that list you readily
identify families which would benefit from being together rather than apart and
you have the means to affect that reconciliation, do all that you can to insure
that this happens. So much rests with you. You control destinies. That seems a
frightening responsibility.
Anyone occupying a role which
owns the weight and the power of the child protection worker within our
society, has to have the right stuff if he or she is confidently and
effectively to protect the rights of children, safeguard the rights of families
and parents and live with a deep contentment at the end of the day. If you see
many cases where harm has been inflicted upon innocents, it is understandable
that callousness develops toward the responsible caregivers. How discriminating
you must be to preserve your own authentic objectivity. How discerning you must
be so that can separate fact and evidence from story and assumption.
You are a member of the public
and the public depends upon you front line people to be so careful with your
invested power for our sakes, the children among us, children who may require
food, opportunity, protection. And by referring to “our sakes” I also intend
our families, parents of children, parents who require understanding, a
listening ear, parents who require advice & counsel and encouragement,
grandparents whose grandchildren are their joys and for whom they hope. Make
all of your action choices wisely and be gentle with us please.”
Then, many readers responded of which these are samples.1. “There is no point appealing to SW as the presence of some good SW, if they ever exist, cannot stop this structural corruption. Nobody will jeopardize their pay cheque, job security and livelihood to uphold justice. Child protection" industry is a racket controlled by a cartel aiming to get rich by ripping off taxpayers at the expense of destroying families. The only way to stop this is by revoking child removal authority and kill CFCSA.”
2. “Rhetoric that appears radical may not be effective or persuasive. However, revoking child removal authority by killing CFCSA is the only practical solution to end this fiasco and build a safer future for our children. Doing so will not compromise real child protection as there are other laws giving authority to separate abusive parents and children based on good evidence and legal due process. Removing the absolute power to remove will substantially reduce wrongful removal, abuse of power and corruption.”
3. “The truth about child protection, and all the corruption, is very difficult to articulate because it is so unbelievable. A person tends to sound like a fanatic or lunatic. But just because someone sounds like this, doesn't mean they aren't telling the truth.”
4. “I had a long history of involvement with MCFD as I was a single parent with multiples and I had a hard time coping with fatigue. Another single mom told me that if I went to my dr. and said I am depressed I could get free childcare. Big mistake!! Many years later they wanted to get me because they thought my son was mentally ill and needed meds so they re-opened a file and claimed 'historical involvement'. It got really weird for quite a while and finally I got my kids back. SO, they do return them. Just keep calm and friendly. Hopefully you are not expected to do a psychological evaluation, as that can be either very good or very bad depending on the doctor. I see now that MCFD was really jerking my chain, as they had no real evidence. They try to bluff you but most of what they write is thin and does not stand up. The case of physical injury is very hard to fight as in SBS. If a medical doctor claims you have physically injured your child, you are in for a long fight. The other stuff should not even be in court and it is a measure they now take to hold the kids until their paperwork catches up. It still can take awhile. I had to wait 4 months without my kids!!! And then there is more work too with all the 'services' they want to give. It is a tough system and all they encourage you to do is to go with their 'services' to a point, as if you do not they make sure you never get your kids back.”
