CAN'T WE HAVE AN HONOURABLE MINISTRY OF CHILDREN? /

When the Ministry of Children and Family Development regional offices consistently fail to comply with some details of the Child, Family and Community Services Act that safeguard the rights of parents and caregivers, is that tantamount to insurgence? Shouldn’t citizens make a loud noise of protest?

When the MCFD appears eager to do what is right and to act in the best interests of the child, but in fact comes up short, and when the Ministry presents itself to the Legislature as scrupulous when in fact it repeatedly violates the Act, why should the province trust it?

THE PRISON OF SHAME / Part 254 / For Love and For Justice / Zabeth and Paul Bayne/

The lives of many social workers involved in child protection are sprinkled with satisfaction and regret. The regrets are sometimes crushing. Regrets may evolve from actions or failures to act. Some social workers spend sleepless nights. A therapist might counsel such people to move on because this is life. It is not so easily done. Some regrets are intensified as time passes because the circumstances created by action or inaction have become infected for the affected people. At these times social workers experience deep regret or sadness and this can have a profound effect upon their lives and their well being.

Some things can be done when feeling one’s saddest. It’s important to honestly decide how much blame should be attached to your role or your action or inaction. Assess whether you could also claim credit for some positive action. Can the situation created by your part be remedied? Would an apology help and would it be enough? If it could be sufficient then genuinely make that apology. A letter is definitely superior to an email message and best of all is a face to face meeting. Beyond this a public apology may be advisable, appropriate, and necessary. May amends be made? Might it require your resignation? Might this take the form of advocating for parents and families who are being injured by actions similar to those that have become your prison?