AYN VAN DYK IS COMING HOME

THIS IS FANTASTIC NEWS.

Just hours ago, Derek Hoare, her father let over 4000 advocates and supporters know via Ayn's Facebook page.


Derek Hoare

i have some big news, which will be difficult to explain in a single post, i will get online this weekend to elaborate. Ready... Ayn is coming home! an agreement was signed on tuesday for her return. it is a sect 60 agreement with no finding of a need for protection. i cannot explain the flood of emotions we are experiencing. i am ofcourse elated and will come online in a day or two, i'm tediously typing this on my phone but will spend much more time when i come on. Thank you so very much everyone.

DEREK HOARE SPEAKS about CHLORPROMAZINE

This recent trilogy of posts began with my attribution to Derek Hoare of several statements concerning the drug chlorpromazine being administered to his daughter Ayn. When an anonymous writer took issue with that content, I found that Iacking knowledge of the drug I could not suitably answer. Furthermore, the writer questioned why Aime was not given custody of Ayn when the child was removed from Derek. I invited comments by Facebook respondents familiar with the drug as well as with Derek and Aime (Mom). Reactions were immediate, defensive of Derek and Aime, offended by the seeming insinuations by Anonymous. Among the expressions came the genuinely faultless answer by Aime herself, published here yesterday. Today, I am relating by direct quotation, the patient and well-informed account by Derek.

DEREK LOVES HIS DAUGHTER OH SO WELL

Derek Hoare wondered out loud in his Facebook comment, how when a child’s relationship with parents has been nothing but positive, that social workers in the Ministry of Children and Family Development can possibly deduce that a parent’s love is not essential to the equation of peace in the life of a child disturbed by living away from home and among strangers no matter how efficient and caring they may be.

That curiosity was born as my previous two blog posts intimated, from the cancellation of a visitation opportunity between mother and daughter, between Aime and Ayn. Ayn is autistic and meltdowns are common with many people dealing with autism. Reason counsels one not to punish a child for a meltdown by cancelling a visit with her mother, or by dulling a child’s senses so she cannot manage a visit. Good social working skills equip one to instinctively know that a loving parent’s involvement will likely raise the spirit of a troubled child and stem the possibility of another collapse hours later.

A CANCELLED PARENTAL VISIT - ANY QUESTION?

I want you to be aware of the substance of a statement carried online on the open Facebook page dedicated to advocacy for Ayn’s return to her biological parental custody and care. Look up 'Help Bring little Autistic girl back to her Daddy.'

Derek Hoare is Ayn’s father and on September 5th he was commenting on a disagreeable situation. His ex-wife Amie Van Dyk with whom he has an amicable and respectful relationship and with whom he shares the deep desire for restoration of full parental rights with regard to their daughter Ayn, reported that she had been refused visitation time. (As you may know, Ayn is in the care of the Ministry of Children and Family Development since June 16, 2011, four days after she wandered from her back yard for a three-hour jaunt, and MCFD workers deemed that she required care and assessment and stronger control and that Derek as primary caregiver to three children, two of whom are autistic, required their assistance. Taking his child, immediately loading her with psychotropic drugs and locking his life into cycle of legal contest to retrieve her is that which Ministry personnel have accomplished.)