tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8060003097513753942.post7216321993836768204..comments2024-02-24T16:30:33.798-08:00Comments on GPS: MCFD HAS CHANGED AYN’S ASSIGNED SOCIAL WORKERRonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07353695791008715393noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8060003097513753942.post-13705619844876678062011-12-15T09:41:09.259-08:002011-12-15T09:41:09.259-08:00The sad part is that the new social worker will ne...The sad part is that the new social worker will never honor what the previous social worker(s) have said they'd do. The first one was probably just an intake worker, the second one is the longer term care worker. The only thing I can recommend when dealing with them is to get out a device and record everything that is said. They run from being recorded because that is in a memo from 8 years ago saying they are not to be recorded. <br /><br />Why not? Do they fear being caught in lies? Do they fear that they will have to honor their obligations, especially if it is recorded? So do it. Record what they say. Don't bother telling them that you are because this is for your safety because if you do, the interview will be over. MCFD are jackals and vultures, preying on the weakest, least protected, least defended members of society and we need to defend ourselves anyway we can.<br /><br />Even though it breaks his heart and he's worried about his child's reaction, he MUST visit. they will write down everything he does and use it against him. Not visiting is ammunition to them that he does not care about his child and gives them more reason to keep her away. He must not show anger, but he must not be emotionless. You gotta understand - they live off of removing child for "perceptions." If the worker sees anger, they will write down nasty wording to make the anger seem unjustified and even dangerous to them and the child. Social workers are master manipulators.<br /><br />Lastly. Get. A. Lawyer. If MCFD comes into your life snooping around, a lawyer, a GOOD one, will stall them. Most legal aide lawyers just rubber stamp what MCFD does, but there are a few good ones out there. They rubber stamp by telling you to do what MCFD wants because that will get you your child back. That's not the lawyer you want. You want one that hates MCFD with a passion and is willing to fight for the return of your child. Janet Murphy was a good one, but I don't know if she is still practicing.<br /><br />We just went through another run in with MCFD. It took them more than 2 months to finally send a letter saying the allegations were false - without actually saying it. Anyone can call for any reason, especially if you piss someone off and they want to cause retributions. Schoolyard bullies are now using the mandated reporter system to cause the entire family grief, not just target the child. All they need to do is go to a teacher, a mandated reporter, and say that there's something wrong with "Adam" or "Eve" and the entire system starts to swing into action. Teachers are supposed to report to the parents first, not MCFD.<br /><br />I don't see Ayn coming home anytime soon. There's too many roadblocks and landmines from MCFD already in place. Write the minister, and the critic. The NDP love hearing stories like this one.Way Beyond Hopenoreply@blogger.com